My mom used to tell me I had two ears and one mouth for a good reason. She tried many times to help me understand
what that reason was, but now finally I think I get it. At least the two ears part.
It goes something like this. We have an outer ear and an inner ear. The outer ear catches all the sounds outside us and funnels them through the ear canal,* (which sounds gross if you know what canals usually look like), into the inner ear where the sounds are coded and sent to the brain through the auditory nerve.
Just for now, let's look at that ear through Spirit eyes: by way of analogy, what might the two parts of the ear mean? What if the outer ear is for listening to other people, and the inner ear is for listening to the Holy Spirit's voice? What if we're supposed to listen deeply to others before responding to them, and listen deeply to the Spirit's voice telling us how to respond to them in the love of God? How would that affect our conversations and relationships?
Well. for starters, what if everything we said -- after listening to the Spirit -- was completely along the lines of what God would have us say? What if we never had to take anything back, because all we said was just the right thing? I think, if we listened to the Spirit well enough, it's at least possible. The fruit of the Spirit is "love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control" (Gal. 5:22-23) and those qualities would certainly reduce the amount of apology and explanation needed for our wrong words and attitudes to others. In the book of Acts, the speakers were often said to be "full of the Holy Spirit" and they said some wonderful things -- so maybe what we say would be more wonderful if we could better hear what the Spirit is telling us.
One of these days I might have to buy a hearing aid to capture those outside sounds better. But what I really need right now is to capture those inner sounds, that voice of God telling me how to respond to others, and make sure I pay attention to that before I speak. How about you? Would listening to God more closely make a difference? Let's pray for better hearing in the "inner ear."
*sometimes called the "middle ear," but having three parts to the ear instead of two really messes up this illustration. Sorry.
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