The Lovely Joanne just had a birthday, and she received cards from friends and family all over. It's been a blessing to be remembered by so many. She and I make it a practice to remember as many birthdays and anniversaries as we can keep track of, and to say some complimentary things to help them know how very much they mean to us. It's not just good manners, it's spreading the love and acceptance God gives us, to someone else. We're always grateful when someone else does the same for us.
On the other, more difficult side, I've seen several friends succumb to deadly diseases in the last few years. Guys who don't look that much older than me. I see car wrecks and other accidents along the highways, and hear the sirens of ambulances from the main street near our house every day. Life is precious, and I keep being reminded that I don't know how much longer I or anyone else has in this life.
Which brings me to my one short point: take the time today to tell someone else how much you appreciate, or admire, or respect him or her. Sincere thanks and praise from an unexpected source can make a person's day. Week, even. People gather around the deathbed of a relative and say nice things, so why not say them now, while they still have time to bask in that warm glow?
One note of caution: this is meant to be a one-way conversation. It's not fair to expect that just because you have said something nice to her, she has to say something nice about you. (Besides, she may be so shocked that she can't think of anything to respond with!) Just give the gift of appreciation and move on, without looking back. The good you do will bless more people than you know. And it may help you to be more grateful for all the blessings from the people in your life, too.
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